A Healing Library: death, dying, & grief

Graduating Into December

On Wednesday, May 11, at 5pm, we will host Becki Lund of La Dimora. Becky is a certified End of Life Doula and Elder Care Consultant.

The gathering, titled “Graduating into December” is an event about transitioning into the next phase of living. Talk about what the term “a good death” looks like for us all. Begin speaking about death in a more honorable, sacred way reflective of what it truly is.

Some questions to consider:
What comes to mind when you hear the words “death” and “dying”?
What would the elements of a positive dying experience look like to you or for your family?
Where would you like to be as you graduate into the next phase in your journey?

Becki will guide us through the difficult but important conversations.

Children’s Grief, Loss, & Trauma Resources
from VT Department of Libraries

“Books can be wonderful tools to use with children who have experienced trauma or loss. Reading (or being read to) and talking with adults can help them understand and cope with their feelings in a developmentally appropriate way. Reading also offers a great way to spend time with a child, reinforce a sense of normalcy and security, and connect with them, all of which are important to recovery from a traumatic experience.

The Vermont Department of Libraries (VTLIB), The Barre District of the Department for Children and Families, and UVM’s the Vermont Child Welfare Training Partnership (VTCWTP), created a path to healing and stability. The three agencies developed a book collection targeting grief, loss, and trauma for different age groups; 0-5, 6-12, and 12-18.” These books come as a set and are meant to be experienced together.
Ages 0-5

TitleAuthor
Me and My FearFrancesca Sanna
Still a Family: A Story about HomelessnessBrenda Reeves Sturgis
The Memory Box: A Book About GriefJoanna Rowland
The Rabbit ListenedCori Doerrfeld
Where do they go?Julia Alvarez

Ages 6-12

TitleAuthor
Cry, Heart, But Never BreakGlenn Ringtved
Half a world AwayCynthia Kadohata 
Prairie EversEllen Airgood
Sunny Side UpJennifer L Holm
Train I RidePaul Mosier

Ages 13-18

TitleAuthor
Hey KiddoJarett Krosoczca
Orbiting JupiterGary D. Schmidt
Prairie EversEllen Airgood

If you need access to these materials, let us know.

Death, grief, and dying resources at Orwell Free Library

For Children

Why did Grandpa die?: a book about death by Barbara Shook Hazen

Something Very Sad Happened: a Toddler’s Guid to Understanding Death by Bonnie Zucker (2016)

The Invisible String by Patrice Karst (2000)

Goodbye Sheepie by Robert Burleigh (2010) *pet death

Big Cat, Little Cat by Elisha Cooper (2017) *pet death

Older Children and Teens

When a Friend Dies: A Book for Teens About Grieving & Healing (1994)

You Are Not Along: Teens Talk About Life After the Loss of a Parent by Lynne Hughes (2005)

Death and Dying by Pete Sanders (1998)

For Parents

A Parent’s Guide to Raising Grieving Children: Rebuilding Your Family After the Death of a Loved One by Phyllis R. Silverman (2009)

For Adults

How To Go On Living When Someone You Love Dies by Theresa A. Rando (1991)

Death: the final stage of growth by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief by David Kessler (2019)

In the Unlikely Event of a Water Landing : A Geography of Grief by Christopher Nol (1996)

Silent Grief by Clara Hinton (1997) *miscarriage

Memoirs

Growing, Older: A Chronicle of Death, Life, and Vegetables: by Joan Dye Gussow (2010)

Of Grief, Garlic, and Gratitude: Returing to Hope & Joy From a Shattered Life by Kris Francoeur (2018)

Further Reference:

The Best Care Possible: A Physician’s Quest to Transform Care Through the End of Life by Ira Byock (2012)

Library of Things

Slowly slowly we are building a library of things for Orwell residents. The collection is a natural evolution of the library’s lending model. The Library of Things aims to reduce barriers for by providing access to quality equipment.

We offer:

  • egg incubator
  • projector and portable screen
  • telescope
  • laptops
  • water cooler
  • puzzles
  • board games
  • wood moisture reader
  • air quality meter
  • tables & chairs

Take advantage of these items – we want them to be used! Is there something missing? Let us know and we will work to add it to our collection.

How to Checkout:

  • Library of Things equipment is available for customers ages 18 and up.
  • Users must be residents of Orwell.
  • A signed Library of Things waiver and a valid government issued photo ID are required to checkout equipment.

2021 Wrap

What a year! Operating the library under the continued COVID-19 pandemic presented challenges.  Once again, we offered little indoor programming, a real loss for our normal operating structure, and were intentional about library usage and availability.   Using the extra hours normally devoted to programming at OFL, we wrote grants, created story time videos with community farmers and professionals, focused on the library collection, offered a 4-week summer camp for Orwell youth, and sought ways to better support and work with community groups.  

This year we received over $33,000 in grant funding.  With those funds and in-kind donations, we provided high quality equipment and tech support to the Select Board for the 2021 Virtual Town Meeting Informational Session, increased our wireless internet reach throughout the village green, purchased new patron and staff computers, increased our outdoor outlet availability, and provided 4 weeks of free day camp to Orwell youth in collaboration with Orwell Village School staff.  

Summer Camp and the teen and preschool programming (supported by the Summer Matters Grant) gave 72 Orwell children access to quality activities.  These events and camps were created to bring children together and give a feeling of hope and support after a year of stress and unknowns.  Our camp themes included The Great Outdoors, STEM, Art, Music, & Movement, and Games, Games, Games.  More than 18 kids participated in each week of camp. We hired 3 committed OVS staff and one local teen to run the program. It was a tremendous success. Young families participated in outdoor story time events and teens came to the library weekly for pizza and activities. This July was one to be remembered.

Virtual Story Time videos featuring local families

Another offering of note from 2021 is our Virtual Story Time videos, available on our website.  We visited sites around Orwell to capture what makes this village special.  A heartfelt thanks to our various hosts!

In the spring, Ramona Akpo-Sani stepped down from her position as the library assistant after many years of library service.  Ramona worked diligently as a Trustee in the early 2000’s writing policies and preparing the library for our online catalog.  As the library assistant, she catalogued many titles and welcomed community members into our space for 3 wonderful years.  Her leadership in bringing the library into the 21st century is to be commended. Thank you, Ramona.  

At the library, we offer:

  • free 24/7 WIFI in our parking area and around the town green.
  • public computers for use during open hours.
  • computer, device, and internet help.
  • a meeting place for local groups. 
  • a public gallery for local artists to display their work.
  • access to an online library of informational databases.
  • access to online libraries of eBooks, audiobooks, movies, and more.
  • a place to donate used, in good condition, books and media.
  • new and emerging technologies to experience, like VR. 
  • a “Library of Things” including an egg incubator, wood moisture reader, projector & screen, Kindle, board games, puzzles and more to borrow. 
  • Passes to local attractions

Over the course of a few months, a committee of Library Trustees, Wright Board members, and the librarian created a document that lays out the responsibilities of each board and the procedures for working together.  The OFL Board approved the Responsibilities Agreement in September and created a liaison position to aid in communication and future positive outcomes.   We all agree, our building in the center of Orwell village is a treasure to be maintained with care.  

We thank the community for your enthusiastic support of our biannual sales.  The majority of our operating funds are raised during these events.  

Lucas Family at the 2021 Harvest Sale

Orwell Free Library is ever grateful to local taxpayers for their continued support.

2021 Circulation and Usage
Borrowed items: 1821 adult books, 3219 children and teen books, 303 videos,
67 kits and things
2223 library visits, 813 program participants
723 items added to the collection

2021 Harvest Book and Bake Sale and DRAGon egg hunt

Our Harvest Sale has lots to offer this year! As always, we will have an assortment of pumpkins, gourds, and squash. Our bake sale table, stocked by library friends and trustees, will undoubtedly be full of treats. We intend to offer soups and hot dogs so come for lunch! If the weather allows, most of the used books will be outside with limited browsing available inside.

We hope to host an apple press the day of the sale so check back next week and bring your clean, freshly fallen apples to turn into cider! Don’t forget to bring containers to take your treat home.

This year our sale will also feature The Great Vermont Dragon Egg Hunt! Follow the clues, discover the treasure, and if you’re lucky, win a Folkmanis Dragon Puppet. The whole family can participate in this scavenger hunt around Orwell village. The Dragon Egg Scavenger Hunt will be available beginning Friday afternoon through 1pm on Saturday.

The Great Vermont Dragon Egg Hunt is presented by Vermont Fairy Tale Festival. Over 100 libraries across Vermont are participating in the event. The festival provided the eggs and dragon puppets, and invited librarians to design their own treasure hunt, rules, and activities. The Vermont Fairy Tale Festival is a celebration of Vermont Libraries. Watch for more information for the September 2022 Fairy Tale Festival at the Sherburne Memorial Library in Killington, we hope to see you there!

The grand prize!

Further information:

At this time, we can only accept cash and checks.
Masks will be required for indoor book browsing.
The Dragon Hunt will be available Friday and Saturday and is appropriate for the whole family. Walking around the village is required to participate.

Our annual Harvest Sale is hosted by Orwell Free Library Board of Trustees. All proceeds go directly to the library to support programming, collection development, and so much more.

Summer Day Camp Grant

The Orwell Free Library received a Summer Matters Grant from Vermont Afterschool, Inc to offer 4 weeks of Day Camp to Orwell and Benson children, 1st grade-6th grade, and a Band Camp for kids between grades (rising) 5 and 7.

Here is more about the funding from Vermont Afterschool, Inc:

“Vermont Afterschool is proud to work with Governor Phil Scott’s office, Senator Bernie Sanders’ office, and the Vermont Agency of Education to establish the Summer Matters for All Grant Program. A total of $3.85 million will be awarded to programs in 13 counties to expand access to summer enrichment opportunities for K-12 youth this summer. Read the Governor’s press release on the grants here.

As we emerge from the pandemic, Summer 2021 will be an important time for Vermont’s youth to re-engage, connect, learn and heal; meet the immediate needs of families; and inform efforts to provide universal afterschool in the future.”


With this funding, we will offer 4 weeks of day camp during the month of July in the fields and forests of Orwell Village School.  Each week will have a theme.  Our themes are “The Great Outdoors”, “Art, Music, & Movement”, “S.T.E.M. Discovery”, “Games, Games, Games!!!”, and a Band Camp for older elementary aged children. 


This is a very quick turn-around from funding announcement to camp beginning and we are excited to take on the challenge

Check out our summer programming brochure to find out more about each week or continue reading.


With the help of this funding, we will also offer Story Time for families with younger children and teen nights throughout July.


We are excited to provide this opportunity to the kids and look forward to a great summer  This, along with the 3+ week options provided by SVUUD will give our children a chance to connect and have fun after a challenging year.   To learn more about what Slate Valley is offering, visit their website here.

To sign up your child, fill out our registration form on our camp page. We will be in contact asap.

Virtual Library Programs

Our online offerings are growing! Every few weeks we post a video featuring a stack of new books on the shelves. We’ve got videos showing how to use our catalog, as well. Who knows what we will come up with next! Visit our YouTube channel to see what’s available.

Our virtual story time shorts are proving to be a fun community connection. Below are our favorites. Find more on our Virtual Story Time page.

New Books 4/27

$3000 grant to support Town Meeting 2021

Orwell Free Library RECEIVES NATIONAL GRANT FOR SMALL AND RURAL LIBRARIES
$3,000 Grant provides funding for Orwell Library to support the Orwell Select Board with virtual Town Meeting offerings.

We were selected as one of 200 libraries to participate in Libraries Transforming Communities: Focus on Small and Rural Libraries, an American Library Association (ALA) initiative that helps library workers better serve their small and rural communities.

The competitive award comes with a $3,000 grant that will help the library purchase quality streaming technology and support staff time to bring the 2021 Orwell Town Meeting safely to town residents. 

We are excited and ready to assist our town officials with a COVID safe Town Meeting alternative.  The grant funds will also allow our library to build infrastructure for quality virtual programming. This moment in time is special and challenging in so many ways.  It is wonderful to be given opportunities to work together and serve our community as best we can.

The pandemic put small Vermont towns in a difficult position.  Running a virtual informational meeting with a Q & A piece is a challenge many are not comfortable offering.  Local libraries are positioned to provide advice and, in some cases, assistance to local governments amidst this challenge.

More than 300 libraries applied for the grant, according to ALA.

Since 2014, ALA’s Libraries Transforming Communities initiative has re-imagined the role libraries play in supporting communities. Libraries of all types have utilized free dialogue and deliberation training and resources to lead community and campus forums; take part in anti-violence activities; provide a space for residents to come together and discuss challenging topics; and have productive conversations with civic leaders, library trustees and staff.

“Libraries Transforming Communities: Focus on Small and Rural Libraries is an initiative of the American Library Association (ALA) in collaboration with the Association for Rural and Small Libraries (ARSL).”

Virtual Discussion Group: Me and White Supremacy

Join us for a virtual 3-part discussion as, together, we work through Me and White Supremacy: a 28 Day Challenge to Combat Racism, Change the World, and Become a Good Ancestor by Layla Saad.

ABOUT THE BOOK, from the publisher
When Layla Saad ran a free month-long Instagram challenge during the summer of 2018, she had no idea it would become an international cultural movement. Thousands of people from around the world were galvanized by the #meandwhitesupremacy challenge, examining and owning responsibility for the ways in which they uphold white supremacy. Over 80,000 people downloaded her guide to the movement, Me and White Supremacy Workbook in the space of just six months. And now, that guide is a published book. Me and White Supremacy leads readers through a journey of understanding their white privilege and participation in white supremacy, so that they can stop (often unconsciously) inflicting damage on Black, Indigenous and people of color, and in turn, help other white people do better, too. The book goes beyond the original workbook by adding more historical and cultural contexts, sharing moving stories and anecdotes, and includes expanded definitions, examples, and further resources. 

Ramona Akpo-Sani will facilitate the discussion. In addition to reading and discussing the book there are questions for each participant to answer for themselves in an effort to help the reader personalize the material by looking at their own history, attitudes, and actions.

Meetings will take place on Saturday November 7, 21, and December 5 at 1:30. Link to the virtual meeting, held on the Zoom platform, will be emailed out to all participants 24 hours before the start of each gathering.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Layla Saad is a globally respected writer, speaker and podcast host on the topics of race, identity, leadership, personal transformation and social change. As an East African, Arab, British, Black, Muslim woman who was born and grew up in the West, and lives in Middle East, she has always sat at a unique intersection of identities from which she is able to draw rich and intriguing perspectives. Saad’s work is driven by her powerful desire to ‘become a good ancestor’; to live and work in ways that leave a legacy of healing and liberation for those who will come after she is gone. She earned her Bachelor of Law degree from Lancaster University in the United Kingdom. She lives in Doha, Qatar with her husband, Sam, and two children, Maya and Mohamed. Learn more at www.laylafsaad.com

Halloween Pumpkin & Storywalk

In the spirit of new, different, and COVID safe, we are creating a Halloween Pumpkin and StoryWalk.

This event is full of fun. Read on to be fully informed!

  • The featured story is There Was An Old Lady Who Was Not Afraid Of Anything by Linda Williams.
  • Enter your jack-o-lantern into our Pumpkin Carving Contest! Fill out the entry form and leave your pumpkin at the library on Friday, October 30th with the form inside. Bring your phone to vote on your favorite pumpkin.
  • Wear a costume! The Mordasky family is providing hay bales for a fun photo scene at the end of the walk.
  • Candy will be given out along the storywalk between 1 pm and 4 pm. If you’d like to sponsor a candy stop, bring candy (a large amount of one or two varieties only) to the library before Saturday morning at 10 am. Donors will be listed at their candy stop.
  • Not interested in the candy? Visit the Pumpkin and Storywalk before 12:30 pm on Saturday for a sugar free Halloween experience.
  • Masks and social distancing are required to participate in this community event.
  • The walk begins at the library, crosses at the crosswalk, circles the town green, and crosses back to the lawn next to the library parking area. Use extreme caution with small children.

We will be safely passing out candy during regular trick-or-treating hours.

The Homecard Program

Orwell Free Library is now a member of the HomeCard library system, a cooperative lending program of 27 libraries in and beyond Chittenden County. All residents of Orwell are eligible to receive Homecard borrowing privileges.

With a library card issued from your home community, you can check out materials from libraries in Chittenden, Grand Isle, Franklin, Addison, and Lamoille counties.

This cooperative system provides users with expanded library hours and a vast collection of books, magazines, videos, music, and audiobooks available for check-out.

How to participate:

  • Visit OFL to update your account and get a new library card. All users must be Orwell residents and be in good standing for 3 or more months.
  • Visit a library in the Homecard system. Sign up for an account with that library using your Orwell Free Library card..

By participating, patron agrees to:

  • Abide by the lending libraries’ policies
  • Return items to the lending libraries
  • Pay any fines for damaged or lost items

Overdue policies:

  • Titles become overdue at the discretion of the “lending library.” Patrons are responsible for visiting or calling the library from which they borrowed an item to find out if it can be renewed.
  • Orwell Free Library is responsible for sending overdue notices to Orwell library patrons.
  • If patrons do not return the items they borrowed from another library they will be suspended and lose library privileges at the Orwell Free Library and all homecard libraries.
  • Patrons are reinstated when the item is returned or when the patron pays for the lost item.

Patrons with ten or more overdues from homecard libraries will be immediately suspended.

The success of the HomeCard system depends on patrons using it responsibly. We urge you to return your materials on time. Thank you.

HomeCard Libraries:

Bristol- LAWRENCE MEMORIAL LIBRARY 40 North St. 05443 PHONE: 453-2336 lawrencelibrary.net
HOURS: Mon 10-5, Tues & Thurs 10-8, Fri 1-5, Sat 9-1

Cambridge – VARNUM MEMORIAL LIBRARY Box 198, Jeffersonville, 05464  PHONE: 644-2117     thevarnum.org
HOURS:  Mon & Tues 12-7,Wed 3-7, Thurs 9-7, Fri 2-5, & Sat 10-3

Charlotte – THE CHARLOTTE LIBRARY  115 Ferry Road 05445  PHONE: 425-3864  www.charlottepubliclibrary.org
HOURS:  Mon, Wed 10-7, Tues, Thurs, Fri 10-5 & Sat 9-2

Colchester – BURNHAM MEMORIAL LIBRARY 898 Main Street 05446  PHONE: 879-7576   www.colchestervt.gov/Library/
HOURS:  Mon & Wed 10-8, Tues & Thurs 10-6, Fri 12-5, Sat 9-3

Essex – ESSEX FREE LIBRARY  1 Browns River Rd. Essex Jct.  05452  PHONE: 879-0313 www.essex.org
HOURS:  Mon, Wed & Fri 9-5, Tues & Thurs 9-8, Sat 9-2 (closed on Saturday in July & August)

Essex Junction – BROWNELL LIBRARY 6 Lincoln Street 05452  PHONE: 878-6955  www.brownelllibrary.org
HOURS:  Mon, Wed & Fri 9-9, Tues, Thurs & Sat 9-5 (closed Sat July and Aug.)

Fairfax – FAIRFAX COMMUNITY LIBRARY 75 Hunt Street 05454 PHONE: 849-242 www.fairfaxvtlibrary.org
HOURS: Mon & Wed 8-5:30, Tues & Thurs 8-8, Fri 8-3:15, Sat 9-1; Summer: Mon Wed & Fri 10-5:30, Tues & Thurs 9-8, Sat 9-1

Georgia- GEORGIA PUBLIC LIBRARY 1697Ethan Allen Highway Fairfax, 05454 PHONE: 524-4643     www.georgia.lib.vt.us
HOURS: Mon & Wed 9-8, Tues & Thurs 3-8, Fri 9-5, Sat 9-1

Grand Isle – GRAND ISLE FREE LIBRARY 10 Hyde Road 05458  PHONE: 372-4797  www.grandislefreelibraryvt.wordpress.com
HOURS: Tues 1-8, Wed 9-12, Thurs 4-8, Sat 9-3

Hinesburg – CARPENTER CARSE MEMORIAL LIBRARY Box 127 05461  PHONE: 482-2878  www.carpentercarse.org
HOURS:  Mon 10-1, Tues & Thurs 10-8, Wed & Fri 4-9, Sat (Summer 10-2)

Huntington – HUNTINGTON PUBLIC LIBRARY Box 98 05462  PHONE: 434-4583     www.huntingtonpubliclibrary.org
HOURS:  Mon 10-6, Tues & Thurs 12-5, Fri 10-5, & Sun 12-5.

Jericho/Underhill – DEBORAH  RAWSON MEMORIAL LIBRARY  8 River Road 05465  PHONE: 899-4962 www.drml.org
HOURS:  Tues & Thurs. 12-8, Wed & Fri 10-6, Sat 10-2, Sun 1-4 (Sept. to May)

Jericho – JERICHO TOWN LIBRARY  POB 1055 05465  PHONE: 899-4686  www.jerichotownlibraryvt.org
HOURS:  Mon , Tues, Thurs & Fri 2-5, Wed 10-12, 2-7, Sat 10-12

Middlebury ISLEY PUB. LIBRARY  75 Main St. 05753 PHONE: 388-4095  www.ilsleypubliclibrary.org
Hours: Mon – Thurs 9-4, Fri 9-5, Sat  9-4, Sun 10-1 (Oct – Apr)

Milton – MILTON PUBLIC LIBRARY  39 Bombardier Road  05468  PHONE: 893-4644  www.miltonlibraryvt.org
HOURS:   Mon – Thurs 9-8, Fri 9-5, Sat 9-1

Monkton RUSSELL MEM. LIBRARY   4333 States Prison Hollow Rd 05469 PHONE: 453-4471    russelllibraryvt.wordpress.com
Hours: Tues & Thurs 3-7, Fri & Sat 9-1     

New Haven NEW HAVEN COMM. LIBRARY  78 North St. 05472 PHONE:453-4015    www.nhcl.org
Hours: Tues 10-5, Wed & Thurs 1-8, Sat 10-1

Richmond – RICHMOND FREE LIBRARY  P. O. Box 997  05477  PHONE: 434-3036  www.richmondfreelibraryvt.org
HOURS:  Mon & Wed 10-8, Tues & Thurs 1-6, Fri 10-6, Sat 10-2

Shelburne – PIERSON LIBRARY  5376 Shelburne Road 05482  PHONE: 985-5124   www.piersonlibrary.org
HOURS:  Mon, Wed & Fri 10-5:30, Tues & Thurs 10-8, Sat 10-3

South Burlington  –  SO. BURLINGTON COMMUNITY LIBRARY  540 Dorset Street 05403  PHONE: 652-7080   www.sburlcomlib.com
HOURS:   Mon, Wed & Thurs 9-8:30 (3rd Thurs. 10:10-8:30), Tues & Fri 9-5, Sat 9-4

South Hero – SOUTH HERO COMMUNITY LIBRARY  75 South Street 05486  PHONE: 372-6209 www.southherolibrary.org
HOURS:   Tues 9-4, Wed 11-8, Thurs & Fri 9-4, Sat 9-2

Vergennes BIXBY MEM. FREE LIBRARY   258 Main St. 05491 PHONE: 877-2211  bixbylibrary.org
Hours: Mon 12:30-7, Tues & Fri 12:30-5, Wed 10-5, Thurs 10-7, Sat 9-2

Westford – WESTFORD PUBLIC LIBRARY  Route 128 05494  PHONE: 878-5639  www.westford.lib.vt.us
HOURS: Wed 1-7, Thurs 10-7, Fri. 1-7 & Sat 10-2

Williston – DOROTHY ALLING MEMORIAL LIBRARY 21 Library Lane 05495 PHONE: 878-4918   www.williston.lib.vt.us
HOURS:  Mon & Wed 10-8, Tues, Thurs & Fri 10-6, Sat 10-3 (July & Aug, 10-1)

Winooski – WINOOSKI MEMORIAL LIBRARY  32D Malletts Bay Ave. 05404  PHONE: 655-6424 www.winooskilibrary.wordpress.com
HOURS:  Tues 10-7, Wed 3-7, Thurs 10-6, Fri 10-6, Sat 9-5